Searching for Clair Huxtable

S3E15 - How Do Women Change Dating Expectations at 20, 25, and 30

Sat, 01 Apr 2023 15:39:20 -0000

How Do Women Change Dating Expectations at 20, 25, and 30. Maceo and Wae are back with Comedian Josh Adams. Talking about the ways women change dating, courting and attraction as they age. Guests include Dorian at 30, Jenna 20, and J 24.

Searching for Clair Huxtable is a Podcast that is about dating Black women from a Black man’s perspective with Maceo & Wae. Listen in for topics like marriage, dating with kids, sex toys, and of course side chicks.

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S3E14 - Two Women = too Many Headaches ... they Poly Lying

Thu, 26 Jan 2023 21:25:32 -0000

Back after forever Maceo & Wae.

Open relationships can have a variety of potential problems, including jealousy, insecurity, trust issues, and communication difficulties. It can be challenging to navigate the emotional complexities that can arise when multiple people are involved in a romantic or sexual relationship. Additionally, open relationships may not be socially accepted or understood by friends and family, which can lead to additional stress and tension. It is important for individuals in open relationships to communicate openly and honestly with their partners and to establish clear boundaries and guidelines to ensure that everyone is on the same page.

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S3E13 - Why Women Get Married

Mon, 03 May 2021 14:00:00 -0000

Episode Notes

Chloelle joins the show and gives Maceo and WAE info on the reasons why Women want to get married. Enjoy some comedy and role-playing, welcome back to SFCH! (Over the Phone Episode)

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S3E12 - Why Don't Men Get Married?

Fri, 23 Apr 2021 14:00:00 -0000

Episode Notes

Maceo and Wae discuss "Why Don't Men Get Married?" it is a general discussion but some deeper themes are explored:

Not Enough Money
Sex (Not giving up the Hoes)
Fear of Longtime Commitment
Fear of Losing Individuality (want to live alone)

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S3E11 - Why do Men Get Married?

Sat, 17 Apr 2021 13:50:45 -0000

Episode Notes

Maceo and Wae discuss "Why Do Men Get Married?" it is a general discussion but some deeper themes are explored:

Kids & Family
Building Together
Life Partnership (Best Friend)

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S3E10 - Sleep Together ... Is that what we Doing?

Mon, 08 Mar 2021 21:36:39 -0000

Episode Notes

Maceo and WAE take another in-depth assessment of what spending a night is like (before you have had sex). Play by Play and what it makes.

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S3E9 - How Black Men can Protect Black Women

Mon, 07 Sep 2020 20:38:18 -0000

How can Black Men Protect Black Women? Whitney (Queen of Body Sculpting) is back on the show and discussing how as family, lovers, friends, and strangers Black Men can better Protect Black Women. Deep discussion with many entertaining highlights for such real talk.

Episode Notes

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S3E8 - When She fell in Love with Her

Tue, 28 Jul 2020 21:57:37 -0000

When She fell in Love with Her. Maceo and WAE welcome back Nunu to discuss the story of her relationship and understanding of her partner, friends, and family in Lesbianism

Episode Notes

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S3E7 - She's dating while she's 'Working on Her'

Tue, 16 Jun 2020 13:19:52 -0000

Shan of Headphonesandstilletos.com joins Maceo and WAE as she opens up about what a woman 'Working on Herself' means. Maceo and WAE talk their perspective and Shan correct us from hers.

Episode Notes

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S3E6 - Sex Urban Legends

Tue, 21 Apr 2020 15:00:00 -0000

Sex Urban Legends with Sparkle from Tiddies and Tacos. 1. Is there a difference between orgasm and cumming? 2. If she shaves her pussy, she's having sex. 3. Can a woman take the condom off with her vagina grip? 4. Can a man ejaculate back to back? 5. Does a lemon juice or vinegar bath tighten up her vagina? 5a. Can too much sex can make her pussy loose? 5b. Can a man tell if their girl fucked somebody else from the curve in her vagina? 8. Does diet impact the way cum taste? 9. Does pregnant pussy feel is better? 9a. Can a pregnant woman get pregnant again? 10. Can all women squirt? 11. If he doesn’t cum doe it mean he is having sex with another woman. 12. If your partner has new sex moves does that mean they have new sex partners.

Episode Notes

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S3E5 - Staying together when you Forced to (on Quarantine)

Thu, 26 Mar 2020 16:16:22 -0000

How do you deal with staying together when you forced to be together. Quarantine and cleanliness are explored in this episode as we welcome back Vanessa (from Season 3 Episode 3). We talking about what you look for in your significant other and more.

Episode Notes

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S3E4 - When She Approaches Him

Thu, 13 Feb 2020 17:04:41 -0000

Many women in dating still subscribe to the 'traditional way' and wait on men to approach them. From hosting Searching for Clair Huxtable, Maceo & WAE have long encouraged that by approaching men women have the advantage of setting the pace and tone in dating. Ebony joins the show and talks about how she approaches men. Maceo & WAE ask her to 'do tell,' Maceo and Ebony actually role play (get ya' head out the gutter) the approach. Fun episode. PS Ebony is a guest through our sister podcast Tiddies and Tacos, thanks Sparkle!

Episode Notes

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S3E3 - Crazy and WTF ... huh ... idk

Thu, 06 Feb 2020 17:36:17 -0000

Maceo and WAE do not support MANY of the views and actions expressed in this podcast by guests ... WTF?

Vanessa and Erica join us for this CRAZY episode. It is either our best or our worst. Either way its a form of entertainment. What began as a topic became talking dirty after dark. Listen for as long as you can. Mmmm .... Yea.

Episode Notes

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S3E2 - Flirting

Thu, 30 Jan 2020 16:57:28 -0000

Flirting do's and don't with Kelli, Susan, and Joi. This was a discussion about how men turn women on or off. Also the body language women use to attract men. Then it gets hot talking flirting while in a relationship.

Episode Notes

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S3E1 - Do you have to Date within Yo' Means?

Thu, 23 Jan 2020 16:49:15 -0000

Sparkle from Tiddies and Tacos comes and talks being evenly yoked. It's a lively discussion as WAE and Maceo hold no punches. We talk 'Apple Bees dating,' Gas Money, and also tell some stories from our past. Welcome back to Searching for Clair Huxtable.

Episode Notes

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S2E25 - Her Commitment Anxiety

Thu, 04 Apr 2019 14:00:10 -0000

Maceo and Wae have another interesting discussion with two women who don't want a relationship or marriage. December and Keshia from Group Text (Check out the Group Text Podcast on Detroit is Different After Dark) talk about how they want men to give them enough space away and stop sweating them. December opens up about why marriage and relationships don't make sense for her and Keshia talks about why men are too clingy today.

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S2E24 - Passive Aggressive Text Message

Thu, 21 Mar 2019 14:05:28 -0000

Episode Notes

Passive Aggressive Text Message. Maceo and WAE explore and discover the true meaning of a passive aggressive text message Maceo received. FUNNY material classic She Text He Thinks.

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S2E23 - Are You Ready for the (Ideal) Relationship?

Thu, 21 Feb 2019 14:15:00 -0000

Episode Notes

Maceo and WAE are joined by special Guest Tao to discuss being ready for your ideal relationship. Do you have the attention span, spcae, time, money, effort in you to be with the type of person ou want. Tao shares from he perspective and her friend's view of it.As Suga Free says if you stay ready you ain't gotta get ready ... hint hint.

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S2E22 - The SEX episode

Thu, 14 Feb 2019 15:20:30 -0000

Episode Notes

Maceo and Wae talk the Birds and the Bees ... Beavers, Bats, Bobcats, Barracuda too. Special edition sex episode with our Favorite Guests.

We feature: Episode 5 'Age Aint Nuthin But a Number I of II' with Loran & Michelle. Episode 33 'Dos and Donts of Going Down with Cherokee Episode 11 'Sex Toys' with Ginger & Nola Episode 26 'Sex She Wants' with Jackie and SHannon Episode 25 'Young & Restless' with the Unicorns are Real hosts Asia and Erin

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S2E21 - Flirting for Fun

Fri, 08 Feb 2019 00:08:44 -0000

Episode Notes

On this "Player's Only" episode of Searching For Clair Huxtable, Khary and Maceo kick it about how easy it seems for women to flirt for the fun of it, and how we as men can tell when its the Real or just game.

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S2E20 - My Fault and Her Problem

Thu, 31 Jan 2019 19:39:49 -0000

Episode Notes

Eboni & Chari of His Fault Her Problem with this swap cross promotion. Follow their podcast and subscribe.

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S2E19 - Diamond vs Ronnie for Ebony's Mind

Thu, 24 Jan 2019 18:43:05 -0000

Episode Notes

Player's Club the Movie and more.

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S2E18 - The List...

Fri, 18 Jan 2019 12:05:53 -0000

Episode Notes

This weeks episode: The List...

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S2E17 - Losing Interest

Thu, 13 Dec 2018 16:02:47 -0000

Episode Notes

Losing Interest with Brook (from the Guess What Happened at Work Today Podcast). We talk about how wthings take a turn for the Boring.

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S2E16 - Body of a Goddess

Thu, 06 Dec 2018 18:02:01 -0000

Episode Notes

Maceo and WAE are BACK! We discuss the Woman’s Body in detail with the Queen of Body Sculpting (Wendy Thompson). The look, smell, taste, and more are covered. What’s a V Steam & when is it something to do? In what ways can you care for the vagina? Also how the health of a vagina is tied to all a woman’s health. Visit www.queenofbodysculpting.com for more from her.

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S2E15 - Textpectations

Tue, 30 Oct 2018 19:24:39 -0000

Episode Notes

Maeco and WAE talk the expectations of text message communications.

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S2E14 - Mrs Right for Mr RIght

Tue, 16 Oct 2018 17:06:49 -0000

Episode Notes

Maceo and WAE discuss some things that men look for in women. Some of the discussion applies to the hosts, some of the discussion relates to generalizations for all men. Talking cooking, communication, date night, and her supporting the Fantasy Football Draft.

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S2E13 - Downtown: Do's and Don'ts of Oral Sex

Thu, 11 Oct 2018 12:29:35 -0000

Episode Notes

Title: Downtown: Do's and Don'ts of Oral Sex

Description: Maceo and WAE are joined by Cherokee to talk all about fellatio and cunnilingus. Technique, protocol, and preparation are all discussed. This was an interesting discussion where even manscaping gets covered.

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S2E12 - Caught Up in Emotional/ Physical Attraction

Tue, 02 Oct 2018 14:32:34 -0000

Episode Notes

Jasmina is back, joining Maceo and WAE to continue the conversation about going back to your ex under ... interesting circumstances. In this episode, they discuss how emotional/ physical attraction factors in to revisiting old flames.

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S2E11 - Backsliding

Wed, 26 Sep 2018 18:50:17 -0000

Episode Notes

Jasmina is the Author that joined Maceo and WAE to talk about going back to your ex under ... interesting circumstances. Backsliding is what we cover in this episode.

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S2E10 - Clair Huxtable Mixtape III

Tue, 18 Sep 2018 11:15:54 -0000

Episode Notes

This Week: Maceo and Wae are off this week, so Detroit Is Different After Dark presents the Searching For Clair Huxtable Mixtape Show, Volume 3! Listen as we recap the wildest moments from previous shows!

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S2E9 - Time and Availability

Tue, 11 Sep 2018 11:27:03 -0000

Episode Notes

In this week's episode, co-hosts Maceo and Wae are joined by MarkQuisha and LaDonna from the My Natural Hair podcast and the conversation gets real about Time and Availability and what it takes to build companionship! Just how much should one be available in a relationship? Does lack of time mean lack of interest? Tune in to check out the discussion!

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S2E8 - Loneliness vs Settling

Tue, 04 Sep 2018 21:56:06 -0000

Episode Notes

Loneliness vs Settling Maceo and WAE have a no guest show and talk all the details of Can Men be Lonley? What's wrong with Settling? And a lot more.

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S2E7 - Birthdays & Holidays

Tue, 28 Aug 2018 22:16:24 -0000

Episode Notes

Birthday & Holidays with Celeste.

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S2E6 - Sex She Wants

Tue, 21 Aug 2018 16:49:33 -0000

Episode Notes

On this episode of Searching for Clair, Maceo and Wae talk to Jackie and Shannon about the Sex Women Want, and these women were not shy AT ALL. This conversation got SO REAL, even Angelice had to share her thoughts! Basically, it’s levels to this. Is there a difference between sex, making love and f*cking? Are there levels to a relationship? You definitely DO NOT want to miss these ladies breaking down the differences, from their vantage points.

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S2E5 - Young & Restless

Tue, 14 Aug 2018 13:53:10 -0000

Episode Notes

"Young & Restless" Age aint Nuthin' but a Number episode 2 of 2. Guests Asia & Erin of the 'Unicorns are Real podcast join Maceo and Wae and talk dating in your early 20's. Also some interesting sex talk in this episode too.

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S2E4 - When it Goes Wrong

Tue, 07 Aug 2018 21:58:35 -0000

Episode Notes

When it Goes Wrong with Guests Ashley & Mahogany.

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S2E3 - Dating a Co-Worker

Tue, 31 Jul 2018 11:22:37 -0000

Episode Notes

Maceo & Wae talk dating a co-worker with His Fault Her Problem hosts Chari & Eboni.

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S2E2 - Side Chicks are Necessary II of II

Tue, 24 Jul 2018 18:17:20 -0000

Episode Notes

Side Chicks are Necessary 2 of 2. Our most controversial episode continued!

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S2E1 - Side Chicks are Necessary I of II

Tue, 17 Jul 2018 18:41:10 -0000

Episode Notes

Macoe & WAE are joined by a proud Side Chick. This ia a 2 part episode that gets very deep into side chick politics. Truth, Fiction, and all between.

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S1E20 - Mr Right for Mrs Right

Tue, 10 Jul 2018 11:57:52 -0000

Episode Notes

Maceo and Wae get back in the full swing of things and discuss what we have found VS what we should have looked for. Dating through the ages 18 - 70 +. This was an interesting and entertaining discussion about Men, Women, and the roles we seek one another to play. Listen, Subscribe, and Share with a Friend the Searching for Clair Huxtable movement is BACK!

S1E19 - Dating & Money

Thu, 10 May 2018 14:40:34 -0000

Episode Notes

Back from our Hiatus Hi Haters! Krysten & Asia talk Dating and Money on the this episode of SFCH.

S1E18 - Whipping it Out! Searching for Clair Huxtable Live

Fri, 19 Jan 2018 01:31:55 -0000

Searching for Clair Huxtable LIVE was an event that filled the rollercoaster of emotions we all have. Laughing, crying, fussing, fighting, and cussing were the highlights of this event. We left on a high note of knowing there are still many differences in thought and understanding that exist between the Black Man & Black Woman’s point of view. The good thing is we agreed to agree on many topics … disagree on a few key points. Guests included Brandon, Chari, Eboni, Karima, Nicole, Tiffany and of course Maceo & WAE.

Race, society, roles, and sex all played out in discussions ranging from a man ‘whipping it out,’ to Black Women being in the corner of Black Men who may/may not be in theirs. We thank all our guests and welcome you to listen to this intriguing and engaging live discussion.

S1E17 - Side Chick

Fri, 19 Jan 2018 01:29:06 -0000

We live in a society where men having a “side chick”, also referred to as a mistress (if married), happens way too much. To some men, being in a relationship without a side-chick is like eating a meal without something to drink – Yes, it can be done, but it not as enjoyable. No matter society’s opinion of a side chick, there are plenty of women who go along with this dynamic. Sometimes it’s the part a woman chooses to play, and other times it’s a role given to them and they try to deal with it. So why is this particular woman finding herself as just the side-chick and not the main chick? Could it be that it’s a role she accepts? TV shows like “The Real Side-Chicks of Charlotte”, custom T-Shirts promoting the behavior, even a “Side Chick 10 Commandments” and “Side Chick Contract”s would prove that this role is not only embraced but welcomed.

S1E16 - Searching for Clair Mixtape Volume 2

Fri, 19 Jan 2018 01:27:28 -0000

“Searching for Clair Huxtable – Mixtape Vol 2”. We welcome everyone to take a journey with us as we revisit and highlight our favorite moments and drops from episodes 9 – 15. We also discuss future show topics, changes, and improvements, and detail the things we do behind the scenes to prepare for each episode. So, if you’ve missed any of our previous Eps or if you’re new to the family and not sure where to start, this Mixtape is the perfect way to wet your appetite! So check it out and enjoy!

All episodes of Searching for Clair Huxtable are covered in this episode too. The mix of laughs, life, and love is in captured in the essence of this. Maceo and WAE host an open discussion throughout the episode to help curate what was, what is, and what’s to come. Thanks for the love.

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S1E15 - Boomerang

Fri, 19 Jan 2018 01:24:55 -0000

What 1992 black Rom/Com starring Eddie Murphy, Halle Berry, Martin Lawrence, David Alan Grier, Chris Rock and Robin Givens (post her divorce with Mike Tyson) grossed $70 million domestically and $131 million worldwide? You have 20secs (We’ll wait….). The answer is – “Boomerang”. Now if you didn’t know that, then not only would you be asked to “Pick Your Poison” right now, but your “Hood Pass” or “Ghetto Card” should be revoked! In this week’s episode, we’re posting our first of many urban cinema classics that we feel coincide with the goal of SFCH Podcast.

To briefly summarize, Eddie Murphy plays “Marcus Graham”, an Advertisement Exec and playboy, whose reputation is to seduce the ladies, then love ’em and leave ’em for any variety of superficial reasons including what he refers to as “hammer time in her shoes.” (a.k.a. bad feet). Now Marcus isn’t above sleeping his way to the top, which we learn early on as his company is being acqu [...]

S1E14 - Submitting to a Man

Fri, 19 Jan 2018 01:23:43 -0000

“Submission” has become a buzzword of sorts. At some point in the dating process its mentioned by us (men) as a desirable trait. But when we do, eyebrows are raised, eyes start rolling, and in most cases, an argument is about to ensue. It’s a frustrating conversation that women seem to go apeshit over. They hear us say we want a submissive woman and they envision a man wanting a woman like to Vanessa Bell Calloway’s character in “Coming to America”, the type of woman who answers every question with, “whatever you like” and will hop on one foot while barking like a dog (if necessary) to please her man. So, let’s explore this relationship dynamic and discuss what qualifies a man to lead and a woman to submit. In today’s metro-sexual charged society and apparent feminization of black men in the media, do black women even believe the black man is capable? Or maybe something is getting lost in translation between ‘Mars’ and ‘Venus’, and women need a clear und [...]

S1E13 - Abortion & Birth Control

Fri, 19 Jan 2018 01:22:00 -0000

Birth control, Emergency contraception, and Abortions are hot-button topics that should be mandatory discussions in a relationship. Everyone knows that Birth control is designed to prevent pregnancy, but Birth control methods work in a number of different ways. To be clear, “the morning after pill” or “Plan B” falls under the category of Emergency contraception and is NOT a form of birth control…. or at least it shouldn’t be viewed/used as such. So if you are sexually active or planning to be, don’t use Emergency contraception as your only protection against pregnancy. In addition, Emergency contraception does not protect against sexually transmitted diseases.

“Plan B” pills are a great way to prevent pregnancy up to 72 hours after unprotected sex and can be used as a resource if a condom breaks or other means of birth control fails. Emergency contraception will not interrupt an existing pregnancy. So for the folks who (still) incorrectly believe that emerg [...]

S1E12 - Lost Episode Searching for Clair Huxtable

Fri, 19 Jan 2018 01:20:16 -0000

Searching for Clair Huxtable is back with vengeance. Hosts Maceo and WAE offer the lost episode of the podcast. We just passed 1000 downloads and thank you all for the support and love. This is a giveback. Guests Donna, Chari, and Eboni (from episode 9: When She’s Not into Him) stayed over a bit longer and the discussion was heated. Takes from Maceo, WAE, and the guests go back and forth like a tennis match. All moving further to find a resolution to the ‘Black Dating Dilemma.’

Check this out and share with friends. Remember every Wednesday visit www.searchingforclairhuxtable.com for new episodes.

S1E11 - Sex Toys

Fri, 19 Jan 2018 01:17:49 -0000

Well, well, well. We’ve finally made our way to the topic of “Sex Toys”. Although finding a woman who is against sex toys is pretty rare nowadays, some men, however, are a little intimidated by the idea of bringing a little ‘something-something’ extra into the bedroom. Considering the orgasm-inducing power of some sex toys, it makes sense.

Female (and male) sex toys have been on the rise for years, and more and more people are using them with their partners. A recent survey issued by “Lelo Global Sex” found that 72% of those who own sex toys use them with their partners. Of the women out there who own two or more sex toys, only 28% of them are single, in comparison to the 62% who are in committed relationships. Also, 78 % of women can’t orgasm by penetration alone and need clitoral stimulation. This means that if you’re not into bringing sex toys into the mix, then you had better step up your game.

If you’re in the category that’s still like “m [...]

S1E10 - Dating while Celibate

Fri, 19 Jan 2018 01:15:43 -0000

So….you’ve made the decision to refrain from sex while dating. Congratulations! Well, sort of. While we celebrate your courage to make this choice, it hard to deny that in today’s dating culture, it’s highly improbable you’ll find someone who practices celibacy while dating. But maybe not. Maybe many other singles have made this personal and/or spiritual choice and decided to become celibate while they date. However, it can’t be ignored that for celibate individuals, relationships can be very difficult and are twice as challenging. The first challenge is, of course, meeting someone who is willing to be in a celibate relationship. That said, let’s explore the Pros and Cons of being celibate while dating, how one comes to this decision and is it really worth it? Our guest this week is Natalie. And Natalie has been celibate for 7yrs! You heard us right, 7yrs….and counting! Now before you ask, no she hasn’t been incarcerated for the past 7yrs, [...]

S1E9 - When She’s Not into Him

Fri, 19 Jan 2018 01:09:59 -0000

When a woman is right for a man, there isn’t a list long enough or words strong enough to explain all the things he loves her or how he truly feels. We all know that men are (mostly) visual creatures so we have to consider the effort, time and investment that’s been made before he reaches the conclusion that she’s “Mrs. Right”. Good or bad, every relationship has a starting point. So what happens when a woman is unreceptive to a man’s advances? When she’s just not into him? Is it deceptive to date a man if you know he likes you more than you like him? Would this be considered leading him on if you continue to go out with him and not make him aware? At what point does your this become an ethical decision and speak one’s integrity and principles outside of dating? [Whew] That’s a lot of questions! But believe it or not, we’re just scratching the surface. Based on some of the stories we’ve heard and others we’ve read on social media about gu [...]

S1E8 - Searching for Clair Huxtable Mixtape Volume I

Fri, 19 Jan 2018 01:07:04 -0000

For decades, Mixtapes have played an increasingly significant role in the Hip-Hop world. As products of the Hip-Hop culture and our musical background, it’s not hard to figure out the catalyst for the “Searching for Clair Huxtable – Mixtape Vol 1”. We welcome everyone to take a journey with us as we revisit and highlight our favorite moments and drops from the first 7 episodes. We also discuss future show topics, changes, and improvements, and detail the things we do behind the scenes to prepare for each episode. So, if you’ve missed any of our previous Eps or if you’re new to the family and not sure where to start, this Mixtape is the perfect way to wet your appetite! So check it out and enjoy!

S1E7 - Breaking Up

Fri, 19 Jan 2018 01:04:41 -0000

Breakups are never easy, especially when there is love involved. After a breakup, it can be healthy for people to reflect on what they’ve learned from the past relationship and what they want to improve in the next one. Now how one chooses to end a relationship varies. Because social media has become such an integral part of our lives, breakups have grown to become more impersonal. The ‘face to face’ break up has become a method of the past and many relationships have ended via text or by some other social media platform. So it bears the question – What’s the most effective way to break up with someone? Especially when ending an unhealthy or abusive relationship. Is breaking up with a man and a woman different? And finally, how do you heal and move on and avoid that gray area which often occurs post break up, where you’re behaving like a couple, but there’s no commitment? There are plenty of Breakups do’s and don’ts. Brain-mapping studies have s [...]

S1E6 - Dating with Kids

Fri, 19 Jan 2018 01:02:01 -0000

Dating for women with child/children can be challenging and often frustrating for women. It adds an extra layer of complexity to the relationship, especially if she has primary custody, which is most likely the case. In addition, many men are hesitant to date a woman with child/children because it can present problems they would rather not have to deal with. For example – Dates are more likely planned which affects spontaneity, the potentially traumatic effects childbirth may have on the woman’s body (i.e. stretch marks, sagging breasts, scarring (C-section) and vagina stretching post childbirth), the possibility of dealing with a “Baby Daddy” or multiple “Baby Daddies” if still in the picture, and finally the possibility of there being double the heartbreak if the relationship doesn’t work out. How does the effect a woman’s dating style and the frequency of which she dates? When is the best time to integrate your child/children into your dating lifestyl [...]

S1E5 - Age ain’t Nuthin’ but a Number 1 of 2

Fri, 19 Jan 2018 01:00:27 -0000

These days more than ever, single people are dating in their 40’s — both men and women — feel free to date a wide range of age groups. One has to wonder though – Is hooking up with someone 10 years your junior (senior) a good long-term decision? Or are you better off with someone who is closer to your age? What challenges do you face when dating people older or younger, and how do you cope? Not only did we find the answers to these questions when we sat down with Loran and Michelle, we found that their views on courtship, dating, and behaviors, sex drives haven’t changed much at all and age literally “ain’t nuthin’ but a number”.

Every Wednesday visit www.searchingforclairhuxtable.com for a new episode from Maceo and WAE. Next week’s episode is ‘Dating with Kids’ episode 6. More on Dating, flirting, sex, relationships, love, and life from a Black man’s perspective on African American Women.

S1E4 - Platonic Friends

Fri, 19 Jan 2018 00:55:17 -0000

Platonic friendships between (heterosexual) men and women are always imperfect, meaning there is always a possibility that the sexual attraction will get in the way. Are men incapable of having a platonic friendship? Can men and women truly be just friends? Maceo and Wae enter a doubles match with Gia and Nay, returning serve after serving as they attempt to avoid game, set, and match! Make sure you check out www.searchingforclairhuxtable.com every Wednesday for updates and more, tell a friend & your friend’s friend too.

S1E3 - Confessions of Hurt Bae

Fri, 19 Jan 2018 00:52:51 -0000

This week’s episode revolves around the #HurtBae relationship video that has now gone viral. In just a few weeks, the #HurtBae phenomenon has generated more ‘confession’ style videos and countless comedic spoofs of the original. We invited Karima and Zenobia stop by the studio to add their perspectives and provide insight in our most energetic discussions to date! You don’t want to miss this!

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S1E2 - Stepping Up as Men Emotionally

Fri, 19 Jan 2018 00:48:40 -0000

Bryanna, Erica and Ber-Henda all stop by “Detroit is Different Studios” and talk men not stepping up (emotionally). Bryanna made a Facebook post weeks ago that caught the attention of WAE and many others. Bryanna’s post expressed the challenges that women face in relationships with men who are emotionally damaged and taking ownership. This led to a great discussion about society, men/women, the Black community and the roles we play. Maceo and WAE give the guy’s point of view against a trio ready to talk!

Searching For Clair Huxtable Episode 2 with Guests Bryanna, Ber-Henda, and Erica

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S1E1 - Truth Hurts (the Ex-Planation)

Fri, 19 Jan 2018 00:44:13 -0000

Ex’s come to the show to talk the history and dating style of Maceo & WAE in a relationship. Vanessa (Huxtable) and Deena share what it was like to date the ‘Searching for Clair Huxtable’ hosts. Vanessa dated Maceo and Deena dated WAE. Stories of trips to Vegas, the friend zone, and expectation are all explored. Also, the introduction of the idea of ‘sexual variety’ is presented. Check out this podcast full of laughs, fun, and real-life stories. This is also the introductory episode of ‘Searching for Clair Huxtable.’