The Dr. Gerry Fishkin Show

20. Attachment Disorder in Adults

Tue, 15 Jan 2019 16:00:38 -0000

There are 4 types of attachment disorder in adults. These are Secure attachment, anxious-ambivalent attachment style, avoidant attachment style, and disorganized attachment style.

It's important to understand these attachment disorders in adults and where they come from. They often can come from trauma wounds we experience as children.

Particularly adults with avoidant personality disorders can impact and create intimacy issues within relationships.

~~~Watch this entire discussion between Dr. Gerald Fishkin and Sophia Amargi, MFT Here: https://youtu.be/idWrG3jqQnk

~~~Find Dr. Gerry Fishkin's book on better understanding shame here: http://bit.ly/scienceofshame

Have you been impacted by trauma at all? If you feel comfortable, we would love to hear your story.

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19. What is Betrayal Trauma?

Tue, 08 Jan 2019 16:00:49 -0000

Betrayal trauma as children can greatly impact our ability as adults to connect and bond with others.

When we talk about betrayal and abandonment, it can be as small as you tell your mother a precious secret to you and you make her promise not to tell anyone, and later you find out she told your father. This psychologically can be determined as a huge betrayal and abandonment that can stick with us.

Sophia Amargi, MFT and Dr. Gerald Fishkin discuss in depth how the trauma from betrayal can alter our mental growth patte

~~~Watch this entire discussion between Dr. Gerald Fishkin and Sophia Amargi, MFT Here: https://youtu.be/idWrG3jqQnk

~~~Find Dr. Gerry Fishkin's book on better understanding shame here: http://bit.ly/scienceofshame

Have you been impacted by trauma at all? If you feel comfortable, we would love to hear your story.

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18. The Common Themes in Childhood Trauma Symptoms

Tue, 01 Jan 2019 16:00:51 -0000

Unfortunately, there are several themes that are expressed in childhood trauma symptoms. Some of these symptoms can come from not having core consistencies in your life. Imagine staring into a broken mirror every day. You are not getting an accurate picture of your true self. And day by day this can wear you down.

Find Dr. Gerry Fishkin's book on better understanding shame here: http://bit.ly/scienceofshame

Between ages 0-5 Children should have these things in place. If they are not consistent, this leads to a common occurrence in childhood trauma. - Empathy - Idealizing - Mirroring and Affective attunement

In her practice, Sophia Amargi, MFT works in the pattern of trauma, story, belief. This is essential to understanding the effects of childhood trauma on adulthood

~~~Watch this entire discussion between Dr. Gerald Fishkin and Sophia Amargi, MFT Here: https://youtu.be/idWrG3jqQnk

~~~Find Dr. Gerry Fishkin's book on better understanding shame here: http://bit.ly/scienceofshame

Have you been impacted by trauma at all? If you feel comfortable, we would love to hear your story.

For more psychology videos related to , please visit: http://therapycable.com

17. What is Toxic Shame in Trauma? And What to do!

Tue, 25 Dec 2018 16:00:51 -0000

Toxic shame is the direct result of unresolved trauma. Toxic shame completely consumes your identity.

We can form and grow this toxic #shame within ourselves by setting unrealistic expectations, failing, and using those failures as "concrete evidence" that we ourselves are shame.

~~~Watch this entire discussion between Dr. Gerald Fishkin and Sophia Amargi, MFT Here: https://youtu.be/idWrG3jqQnk

~~~Find Dr. Gerry Fishkin's book on better understanding shame here: http://bit.ly/scienceofshame

Have you been impacted by trauma at all? If you feel comfortable, we would love to hear your story.

For more psychology videos related to , please visit: http://therapycable.com

16. How to Form New Habits in Your Brain

Tue, 18 Dec 2018 16:00:21 -0000

There's a fairly simple concept to imagine in how to groove new neural pattern pathways or develop new habits into your brain.

Imagine this scenario, your house backs up to a somewhat overgrown field, and your school is on the other side. Every day you walk outside through the back and through the field to your school. Every day you walk to and from following this same path. Over time that path becomes very distinct. One day you are told or experience that this pathway is no good for you but you don't know how or where to groove a new pathway.

With the help of therapists and psychologists, they can help show and guide you how to create and form new habits or pathways in this scenario.

~~~Watch this entire discussion between Dr. Gerald Fishkin and Sophia Amargi, MFT Here: https://youtu.be/idWrG3jqQnk

~~~Find Dr. Gerry Fishkin's book on better understanding shame here: http://bit.ly/scienceofshame

Have you been impacted by trauma at all? If you feel comfortable, we would love to hear your story.

For more psychology videos related to , please visit: http://therapycable.com

15. Shame vs Guilt - What the Heck is the Difference?!

Tue, 11 Dec 2018 16:00:44 -0000

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There is a difference between shame and guilt. Shame is often seen as public versus guilt which is a very private thing. Dr. Gerald Fishkin and Sophia Amargi discuss in detail their professional opinions on the difference between shame and guilt.

Guilt says I did something wrong. Shame says I am wrong.

Have you ever thought of the difference in shame vs guilt before? What is your experience?

~~~Watch this entire discussion between Dr. Gerald Fishkin and Sophia Amargi, MFT Here: https://youtu.be/idWrG3jqQnk

~~~Find Dr. Gerry Fishkin's book on better understanding shame here: http://bit.ly/scienceofshame

Have you been impacted by trauma at all? If you feel comfortable, we would love to hear your story.

For more psychology videos related to , please visit: http://therapycable.com

14. Conquering Fear A Cancer Survivor's Wisdom

Tue, 20 Nov 2018 16:00:00 -0000

David Bantz is an incredible human being. In his book, Conquering Fear: A Cancer Survivor's Wisdom, David shares exactly that, his story of conquering cancer multiple times and what he has learned through his courageous process.

In this fascinating and emotional interview, Dr. Gerry Fishkin interviews David A. Bantz about his life story, the amazing support he has received, and the advice he offers to other people who are struggling with cancer.

Find David A. Bantz book here: http://bit.ly/conqueringfearbook

If you or a loved one are struggling with cancer we highly recommend looking into David's book.

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13. What is Toxic Shame in Trauma? And What to do!

Mon, 22 Oct 2018 15:00:00 -0000

Toxic shame is the direct result of unresolved trauma. Toxic shame completely consumes your identity.

We can form and grow this toxic #shame within ourselves by setting unrealistic expectations, failing, and using those failures as "concrete evidence" that we ourselves are shame.

Dr. Gerald Fishkin's new book, The Science of Shame and It's Treatment is a fantastic look into the mind to deconstruct shame, and truly find out what it is and where it comes from!

Find Dr. Gerry Fishkin's book here

Dr. Gerald Fishkin is an award winning author and psychotherapist with more than 30 years of experience dealing with shame and psychology!

Get in touch and learn more about Dr. Gerald Fishkin

This Podcast was produced by: TherapyCable

12. Understanding Traumatic Response

Mon, 15 Oct 2018 15:00:00 -0000

By understanding the what, why, and how trauma happens, the traumatic response or "The Wound" as described by Sophia Amargi, MFT, can cause immediate relief.

This won't heal the shame or the wound of traumatic events in childhood at that moment, but it let's you understand the landscape of how these events occurred, and how these traumatic responses began to form stories of beliefs.

Dr. Fishkin and Sophia also discuss where trauma comes from and where it is stored in your body.

Dr. Gerald Fishkin's new book, The Science of Shame and It's Treatment is a fantastic look into the mind to deconstruct shame, and truly find out what it is and where it comes from!

Find Dr. Gerry Fishkin's book here

Dr. Gerald Fishkin is an award winning author and psychotherapist with more than 30 years of experience dealing with shame and psychology!

Get in touch and learn more about Dr. Gerald Fishkin

This Podcast was produced by: TherapyCable

11. Shame Psychology - Is It A Real Thing

Mon, 17 Sep 2018 15:00:00 -0000

What is shame psychology? Unfortunately, it really isn't a sure thing. There is shame, psychology, and psychological effects of shame, but the term "shame psychology" simply doesn't exist.

Until recently, shame wasn't studied by psychologists at all. Historically, discourse regarding shame was associated with theology and philosophy.

Today, shame and toxic shame have been associated with recovery and 12-step programs.

Dr. Gerald Fishkin's new book, The Science of Shame and It's Treatment is a fantastic look into the mind to deconstruct shame, and truly find out what it is and where it comes from!

Find Dr. Gerry Fishkin's book here

Dr. Gerald Fishkin is an award winning author and psychotherapist with more than 30 years of experience dealing with shame and psychology!

Get in touch and learn more about Dr. Gerald Fishkin

This Podcast was produced by: TherapyCable