They/Them/Theirs - A Monthly Non-binary Discussion https://theythem.pinecast.co Pinecast (https://pinecast.com) en-USRayne & Casey Rayne & Casey moonshotnetwork@gmail.com yes They/Them/Theirs - A Monthly Non-binary Discussion https://theythem.pinecast.co https://storage.pinecast.net/podcasts/covers/a9c953da-4525-4174-8999-dca8f6755ecc/TheyThemSmaller.jpg episodic The Orange Groves Yes #30: The Furry Allure https://pinecast.com/guid/8b07d794-fbe3-4d31-aced-ff6c97880199 Tue, 22 Mar 2022 03:33:54 -0000 00:54:50 https://theythem.pinecast.co/episode/8b07d794/30-the-furry-allure It’s episode 30, Rayne is joined by Gracie Pryor were together they discuss The Furry Allure, Neopets ( are we seeing a trend ? ) , Rat Tatts, What If We Just Enjoyed Things? Which Shrek, How to throw a great party, tik tok beef, and of course, Gender.

Gracie can be found at @Graciedraws and https://gpryor.myportfolio.com/

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]]> yes 1 #29: Little A Movie Podcast (As A Treat) w/ Jo https://pinecast.com/guid/34b3a460-78ee-42f4-9b29-9cd538569e9b Mon, 03 Jan 2022 16:13:56 -0000 01:02:14 https://theythem.pinecast.co/episode/34b3a460/29-little-a-movie-podcast-as-a-treat-w-jo Jo returns to the podcast to catch up with Rayne and occasionally touch on gender.

Topics include: OLD is a great movie, and SPIDER-MAN is not How Time This Year Has Been Weird The Glory of NEOPETS and Modern Social Media Jo's Healthier Podcast Balance The Dark Times of WInter THE MATRIX: RESURRECTIONS and Gender (and how it slaps so hard) More Movies, Mostly Horror, Video Games??? Hell Yeah, Projects More Movies: Gender Edition

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]]> yes 1 #28: Riley L. Hopkins, Goof Peddler https://pinecast.com/guid/a596f8e7-5474-498d-9fcc-18f28d39eb2e Mon, 08 Nov 2021 02:10:58 -0000 01:33:27 https://theythem.pinecast.co/episode/a596f8e7/28-riley-l-hopkins-goof-peddler This month Rayne is joined by Riley L Hopkins to discuss:

  • Repressed & Father Confirmed Childhood Clown Trauma
  • Entertaining as a means of connection
  • Game Design, how the heck do you do that?
  • Steven Kings’ Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles
  • Riley's Gender Jpegs
  • Bionicle Curse
  • The Worst Popeye Impression Rayne’s Ever Heard

@RevRyeBread https://www.linksmithgames.com/

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]]> yes 1 Podcast Update 2: This Time It’s Casey https://pinecast.com/guid/e8b68d90-9043-49e5-8ab2-09de65796944 Wed, 13 Oct 2021 15:10:48 -0000 00:18:08 https://theythem.pinecast.co/episode/e8b68d90/podcast-update-2-this-time-it-s-casey Rayne & Casey record in person! Casey has news, Casey’s Dad has an eyepatch, Audacity took a nap, and Rayne’s mental health is normal CW: Eyeball talk

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]]> yes 1 #27: Printers are Cats, You’re Chunking The Paper https://pinecast.com/guid/7add6633-e4ce-4bd7-bc31-0c9a1292766f Mon, 30 Aug 2021 16:54:13 -0000 01:30:05 https://theythem.pinecast.co/episode/7add6633/27-printers-are-cats-you-re-chunking-the-paper Rayne & Casey talk with Harry-Anne (she/they) from “across the pond” (sorry)

Some things we talk about are: Publishing Having a very cool (and fully funded) kickstarter Queer Erotic Comics Yaoi PEOW Print Sexy Print Prowess & Problems Going to the gender clinic because you’re definitely cis, right? More Comics!!

Harry-Anne online: https://linktr.ee/HarryAnne https://www.kickstarter.com/projects/khaoskreator/nectar-trans-femme-and-non-binary-erotic-comics-anthology

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]]> yes 1 #26: The Great Twinkish Vape Off https://pinecast.com/guid/bc6754c2-2d9f-40f3-a00b-7a68edf7bfbf Wed, 30 Jun 2021 20:44:35 -0000 00:51:33 https://theythem.pinecast.co/episode/bc6754c2/26-the-great-twinkish-vape-off Rayne and Jo are joined by Jay IRL to discuss being a sequential masochist, Rayne's apology tour, Jay's Shrek Dating Rules, the Shrek 2 soundtrack being a cultural reset, Ring of Keys by Allison Bechdel, MS Paint Warrior Cats animation, the appeal of labor intensive art, Ouran Host Club and gender, M. Night Shyamalan (again), and vaping.

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]]> yes 1 #25: A Very NSFW Episode With Nayland Blake & Carta Monir https://pinecast.com/guid/b4b8a5ba-529f-4c4f-93a5-2945f4a8f5ef Mon, 31 May 2021 17:23:00 -0000 https://theythem.pinecast.co/episode/b4b8a5ba/25-a-very-nsfw-episode-with-nayland-blake-carta-monir First up, Casey & Rayne talk with Nayland Blake ( Artist, Furry, Lover of Culture )

Some topics covered include :

Representation Exploration

Furry Fandom Space

Furries in the Fine Art Space

Finding Community at Conventions

Manifesting your unique presence in the world

Labels as a means of exploration vs dismissal

Performance art, Feeder 2 https://hammer.ucla.edu/take-it-or-leave-it/art/feeder-2

NFT’s suck make zines

Make a Wikipedia page for the creators you love!

Nayland’s Website : http://www.naylandblake.net/about/

Twitter : https://twitter.com/naylandblake?s=21

Instagram : @Naylandw

Jo talks about movies for a sexless palette cleanser ( Lady in the Water whips ass Jo, you don’t know what you’re talking about )

Carta Time (significantly more NSFW)

“Just Roommates”

Carta’s Boobpedia https://www.boobpedia.com/boobs/Carta_Monir

Carta’s tweet https://twitter.com/cartamonir/status/1392197520881639425?s=21

The M&M’s are gay https://twitter.com/mmschocolate/status/615220459253141504?s=20

Carta Talks Extensively About Her Body

Innovations In At Home Genital Molding

The Shirt https://diskettepress.com/products/carta-monirs-dick-fanclub-shirt

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]]> yes 1 #24: Someone’s Back's Gotta Hurt https://pinecast.com/guid/1a860694-923f-4ad1-a167-0d7639210095 Sat, 01 May 2021 02:07:27 -0000 00:57:10 https://theythem.pinecast.co/episode/1a860694/24-someone-s-back-s-gotta-hurt Rayne & Casey talk about : Bad Backs ( Casey’s Turn ), Knightscoop, Documental, Running, is it good? ( no ) [editors note from Jo: running is good actually], Some Gender with None Government, ranma 1/2, Rayne’s Garden Mystery, And “the most controversial book ever written in Canada”

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]]> yes 1 #23: They As Hell https://pinecast.com/guid/f7aaf69b-4d79-46a0-9e12-4241ea3ad05f Wed, 31 Mar 2021 20:47:00 -0000 01:55:47 https://theythem.pinecast.co/episode/f7aaf69b/23-they-as-hell CW : death, detransitioning, needles

Rayne & Casey Catch Up

We’re Tiny Whiney Nonbiney Beautiful tik tok Queers & Educators

Robin Tran on Tiktok https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMeycrPfW/

Racist Origins of the phrase ‘Grandfathered In” https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMeycaDp9/

Jojos bizarre adventure is just so good ? Have you watched it?

Detransition Awareness CW detransitioning, death, Transness in relation to misogyny, gender imposter feelings

Books Mentioned https://www.simonandschuster.com/books/A-Quick-Easy-Guide-to-They-Them-Pronouns/Archie-Bongiovanni/9781620104996

https://www.simonandschuster.com/books/A-Quick-Easy-Guide-to-Queer-Trans-Identities/Mady-G/9781620105863

Interview with Yhasmin Wilder Zine Fests, Bass Playing, Festival Organizing & Time Management

Twitch streaming

Rayne busts their knee opening paper

They as Hell a free zine by Yhasmin

https://gumroad.com/boymonsta

https://www.etsy.com/shop/shopboymonsta

https://www.instagram.com/boymonsta

https://www.twitter.com/batattackk

https://www.twitch.tv/batattackk

https://www.redbubble.com/people/boymonsta/shop

https://www.tiktok.com/@boymonsta

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]]> yes 1 #22: Female Male Assigned: Birth + Interview with Austin https://pinecast.com/guid/95321383-7c4a-451d-8d1e-9740de7ed62e Sat, 27 Feb 2021 19:09:13 -0000 02:08:44 https://theythem.pinecast.co/episode/95321383/22-female-male-assigned-birth-interview-with-austin The month is FEBRUARY and Rayne and Casey sit down to discuss back pain, bad conventions, good anime, bad apps, bad art theft, and they interview their good friend Austin (he/they/she). Together they discuss nerd shit, movie snow, gender, therapy, Matt Damon, and Pikachu humor!

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]]> yes 1 #21: Assigned Hero at Birth + Interview with Gabi & Bonnie https://pinecast.com/guid/5e083c6a-6523-4de2-8556-61af0adfce07 Thu, 21 Jan 2021 20:12:11 -0000 02:09:11 https://theythem.pinecast.co/episode/5e083c6a/21-assigned-hero-at-birth-interview-with-gabi-bonnie This month is a DOUBLE HEADER as Rayne and Casey talk their usual talk but are also joined by artists Gabi and Bonnie!

Topics discussed include:

In the interview, topics include:

  • "I'll show you, gender!"
  • Top Surgery as a femme nonbinary person
  • Was I just supposed to find out Lachlen Watson is nonbinary from this interview or was someone gonna tell me
  • $500 Refund For No Nipples

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]]> yes 1 #20: Tape Sounds and Yu-Gi-Oh https://pinecast.com/guid/2c7b506a-18f3-4b14-963e-c7f5abcf72a3 Sun, 27 Dec 2020 19:34:10 -0000 00:55:06 https://theythem.pinecast.co/episode/2c7b506a18f34b14/20-tape-sounds-and-yu-gi-oh Join our discussions in the Orange Groves Discord Server!

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]]> yes 1 #19: Young Adult Fiction, Gender, and Shrek https://pinecast.com/guid/8506f4cb-43f3-433c-b905-8b3509fc8781 Sun, 01 Nov 2020 18:28:35 -0000 01:05:11 https://theythem.pinecast.co/episode/8506f4cb43f3433c/19-young-adult-fiction-gender-and-shrek Content warnings for fiction discussed throughout include mentions of: sex , death, mental illness, miscarriage

Together, Rayne and Casey discuss several books, Nic Cage, Shrek, and more.

Rayne if you're reading this please watch Moonstruck it's getting a Criterion release soon

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]]> yes 1 #18: Fibrous Husks 4 All https://pinecast.com/guid/2cd7418c-5910-425a-808d-2b4a253093cc Sat, 19 Sep 2020 18:30:57 -0000 01:06:15 https://theythem.pinecast.co/episode/2cd7418c5910425a/18-fibrous-husks-4-all Content Warning: discussion of the Star Trek episode _The Outcast _ includes fictional depictions of discussion of electroshock therapy and conversion therapy

This month Rayne and Casey sit down to discuss how trans Digimon are, talk more comics, gender in Star Trek, and of course, Now You See Me 2.

Links from today's episode:

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]]> yes 1 #17: A Few Good Thems https://pinecast.com/guid/a9f07abb-f6ac-423f-9cad-9e098e14f751 Mon, 31 Aug 2020 17:33:03 -0000 00:59:33 https://theythem.pinecast.co/episode/a9f07abbf6ac423f/17-a-few-good-thems The Podcast Returns! Rayne hangs out with fellow artist Casey Nowak as they tackle a revolutionary new take on the format of podcasting: Casey is the cohost. Listen as Casey introduces themself, and then as the duo discusses comics, podcasts about horses, and then some more comics.

Links mentioned:

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]]> yes 1 Podcast Update https://pinecast.com/guid/f5a20521-87b2-4129-9671-7320bff22a82 Sat, 04 Jul 2020 22:56:24 -0000 00:02:37 https://theythem.pinecast.co/episode/f5a2052187b24129/podcast-update BRB

Jo On Twitter: @ghostofjo Rayne On Twitter: @smallsmallwitch

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]]> yes 1 #16: Cloud in a Dress, Trans Lesbian Vampires, and Monster Movies https://pinecast.com/guid/82310f48-b7eb-472c-b377-0b9d05d7a4e2 Thu, 30 Apr 2020 23:02:17 -0000 01:21:52 https://theythem.pinecast.co/episode/82310f48b7eb472c/16-cloud-in-a-dress-trans-lesbian-vampires-and-monster-movies April has come and gone, and we're back in the GENDER ZONE

Topics of this episode in include:

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]]> yes 1 #15: Recent Trans Representation in Film (and also yes the Marvel Comics thing) https://pinecast.com/guid/66446e90-4de5-4859-b98a-2740e43455e7 Tue, 31 Mar 2020 19:50:07 -0000 01:47:31 https://theythem.pinecast.co/episode/66446e904de54859/15-recent-trans-representation-in-film-and-also-yes-the-marvel-comics-thing- We didn't plan for this episode to come out on TDOV so we will probably talk about it in April! Also, if you'd like to skip the majority of our COVID related conversation in this ep, skip ahead to 11 minutes in.

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]]> yes 1 #14: Warm Genders https://pinecast.com/guid/aae755d3-38af-4e70-81e1-3ccce4b014a3 Thu, 27 Feb 2020 06:52:00 -0000 01:08:18 https://theythem.pinecast.co/episode/aae755d338af4e70/14-warm-genders This month we discuss the weather's affect on presentation, films about hedgehogs and birds, various other February interests

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]]> yes 1 #13: #IAmNonbinary https://pinecast.com/guid/cd813a49-d750-41f2-a9d5-acdd8439cefd Sun, 26 Jan 2020 20:18:12 -0000 00:51:41 https://theythem.pinecast.co/episode/cd813a49d75041f2/13-iamnonbinary #NotAMoviePodcast

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]]> yes 1 #12: A Sine Wave of Gender https://pinecast.com/guid/310e9899-c5aa-4c02-95f2-1788b6859af4 Mon, 30 Dec 2019 00:09:41 -0000 01:04:15 https://theythem.pinecast.co/episode/310e9899c5aa4c02/12-a-sine-wave-of-gender This month we unwind to and remain unwound for a discussion spanning the topics of:

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]]> yes 1 #11: A Cornucopia of Gender https://pinecast.com/guid/3c951153-ce05-4435-ad3f-72c747a9cd6d Thu, 28 Nov 2019 03:13:46 -0000 00:59:36 https://theythem.pinecast.co/episode/3c951153ce054435/11-a-cornucopia-of-gender This is as close as we're getting to "festive"

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]]> yes 1 #10: Bewaring the False Balance and Makeup and Drag with Dekaylee https://pinecast.com/guid/8fec8f26-df90-4606-b3d8-e6a57c1a33d0 Wed, 30 Oct 2019 04:29:57 -0000 01:37:10 https://theythem.pinecast.co/episode/8fec8f26df904606/10-bewaring-the-false-balance-and-makeup-and-drag-with-dekaylee A quick check in before we dive into our first INTERVIEW YOOOOOO

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]]> yes 1 #9: Nonbinary Representation in Film, Pop Culture, and Consumerism https://pinecast.com/guid/9c2a6a00-4c50-4943-89ed-b3f4374c6757 Mon, 30 Sep 2019 04:21:00 -0000 01:36:15 https://theythem.pinecast.co/episode/9c2a6a004c504943/9-nonbinary-representation-in-film-pop-culture-and-consumerism We're back after our break to discuss our busy time away, and then dig into several topics and how they make us feel, all while trying to make puns with the words they and them whenever possible (with varying success)

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]]> yes 1 Bonus: They/Them/Theirs Chatcast #1 https://pinecast.com/guid/0f70c526-dfca-437c-83aa-d69d0e5a1906 Sun, 25 Aug 2019 21:00:22 -0000 00:14:34 https://theythem.pinecast.co/episode/0f70c526dfca437c/bonus-they-them-theirs-chatcast-1 Whoops we're too busy this month, here's some bonus content! Jo learns about Dutch Guilt, Rayne learns about the "hit or miss" video, and fun is had by all.

E-mail us questions or ideas for future topics at theythem@theorangegroves.com

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]]> yes bonus #8: Haircuts, Formal Attire, and Gender Presentation https://pinecast.com/guid/7bf197ad-384a-41bf-b2b3-7ab7dd410ef9 Wed, 31 Jul 2019 04:12:08 -0000 00:57:47 https://theythem.pinecast.co/episode/7bf197ad384a41bf/8-haircuts-formal-attire-and-gender-presentation Back at it again at the Gender Krispy Kreme **does 3 backflips and kicks the binary sign**

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]]> yes #7: What's in a Name? Chosen Names, and Pride https://pinecast.com/guid/4611c27c-04f2-4241-93d9-245d7a6632d5 Sun, 30 Jun 2019 06:55:06 -0000 01:00:28 https://theythem.pinecast.co/episode/4611c27c04f24241/7-what-s-in-a-name-chosen-names-and-pride Click here to enter the Pride Month Giveaway, running until July 4th!

This month we end up talking a lot about names, and how we're treated as a result of the weight those decisions we make, and those made for us.

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Our theme music is Big Trucks by I Believe in Julio.

]]> yes #6: Dysphoria Buster https://pinecast.com/guid/1a80ca64-deaf-4eb2-9a86-217e11935aba Fri, 31 May 2019 17:58:55 -0000 01:03:50 https://theythem.pinecast.co/episode/1a80ca64deaf4eb2/6-dysphoria-buster This month, we had a relaxed rainy day chat to catch up and talk about some listener questions!

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]]> yes #5: Break In Case of Gender Emergency + Mailbag https://pinecast.com/guid/1f4790ea-1daa-4bcf-8c69-76d56139d4e9 Wed, 24 Apr 2019 03:18:48 -0000 01:04:21 https://theythem.pinecast.co/episode/1f4790ea1daa4bcf/5-break-in-case-of-gender-emergency-mailbag Here is a list of LGBTQ focused hotlines and online services!

Welcome to April, in which we talk about packing for vacations, and travelling, finding out best self through transition, and answer listener questions!

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]]> yes #4: Alas! Gender - Formative Gender and Sexuality Experiences https://pinecast.com/guid/b76929e5-4734-44e6-bc93-87ab4eac113d Fri, 29 Mar 2019 04:05:43 -0000 01:17:15 https://theythem.pinecast.co/episode/b76929e5473444e6/4-alas-gender-formative-gender-and-sexuality-experiences At around 45:20 into this episode we talk about our experiences with a transphobic slur and concept, so heads up!

This month we sit down and bounce between topics and conversations about media that gave us questions about ourselves early on, and other formative experiences where we began to figure out what we are certainly still figuring out: gender and sexuality.

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]]> yes #3: Presentation, Experimenting with Fashion, and Queer-Made Clothing https://pinecast.com/guid/7f2dc007-c4a7-4242-90c2-0ec7642250b4 Fri, 01 Mar 2019 04:28:00 -0000 01:27:47 https://theythem.pinecast.co/episode/7f2dc007c4a74242/3-presentation-experimenting-with-fashion-and-queer-made-clothing Together this month, but not actually, we discuss existing outside of our usual safer spaces, Carlito the Raccoon, binding, presentation, choosing clothes, navigating dysphoria and experimentation, and queer owned clothing brands.

Links for things we discuss/recommend during this episode:

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Our theme music is Big Trucks by I Believe in Julio.

]]> yes #2: Dingos Crossed https://pinecast.com/guid/8a4fd5b9-8f9e-4525-90ca-046ab59c153f Mon, 21 Jan 2019 19:57:26 -0000 01:16:57 https://theythem.pinecast.co/episode/8a4fd5b98f9e4525/2-dingos-crossed This month we sit down to bounce between several topics, including gender comics, SonicFox, finding the right pronoun for you, the fear of "deciding" vs experimenting and fluidity, Jablinski, metaphors, cowboys, and Nintendo's naming conventions. You know, the usual.

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Our theme music is Big Trucks by I Believe in Julio.

]]> yes #1: A Charcuterie of Gender https://pinecast.com/guid/0239aae2-d391-4af2-a0d9-c5508f7b8784 Wed, 12 Dec 2018 23:45:06 -0000 01:18:12 https://theythem.pinecast.co/episode/0239aae2d3914af2/1-a-charcuterie-of-gender In our inaugural episode, we sit down and talk a little about our history with gender and being non-binary, what it's like explaining being non-binary and coming out, dysphoria, finding ourselves in media, our favorite vines, and cats.


Our theme music is Big Trucks by I Believe in Julio.

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